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Most of my childhood was uneventful. I will
mention a few little short stories for now that stand out particularly strong in my mind.
The Coon Hunts and the Universe
It was late at night when we began to prepare to go on a hunt. I had gone on many a coon hunts with my dad. I didn't enjoy the hunt as much as my dad but there was many reasons to go with my dad. It was a chance to spend time with him and to see the world from a different view. He was not very close with my two brothers and me. I guess this was because his first family basically disowned him when he divorced their mom and married the woman that later was my mom.
My dad always made sure I put on at least three pairs of socks and wore thermal long johns beneath my clothes to keep warm. I usually did not want too but later that night I was always glad that I had when it got really cold. We would each take a strong beam flash light for shining up the tree when looking for the coon. My dad usually took a shotgun and a rifle with him on the hunt. Then there were the coffee and sausage biscuits. After we packed everything we needed for ourselves we would go out and load the dogs into the back of my dad's old pickup truck. He had this big old handmade wooden and wire cage that he put them in. Then we would always go and meet one of my dads coon hunting friends. It would be decided whether we would either take their truck or ours to some remote place to enter the forest.
More often than not the location included going down some bumpy old dirt road that passed by a graveyard or some old haunted home. The night being so dark I would imagine I saw ghosts. There was always a tall tale associated with these locations. Once we pulled to a stop my dad would turn off the engine and the lights to the truck. It was so dark I could not even see my hands in front of my face. The quietness would come rushing at us like a monster of its own accord. Stifling the little whispers of my dad to his friend and the frenzied yelping of the impatient dogs in the back of the truck. We would set the dogs free and they always ran around like mad for a few minutes, sometimes jumping up on me and almost knocking me to the ground. This was because they were leashed with a long chain and it was their one night of freedom after maybe weeks of waiting. My dad would start off into the woods calling to the dogs with names like, spike, old blue, preacher, and so many I can not recall them all to follow him. Sometimes we had as many as ten dogs from my dad and his friend to go on the hunt. After a few minutes my eyes would adjust to the night and I could see the world take on a completely new shape. You could see the glow on the sky of some distant town lights and the stars thrown across the heavens like so many diamonds on black carpet. My dad said that if you went hunting when the moon was out the dogs could never get the coon to climb a tree and he would always end up in a hole that was unreachable by the dogs or us.
After a short time in the woods the dogs would start barking off in the forest somewhere. They had that sound almost like a train, but special in its own way when they caught the scent of their quarry. We would continue on into the forest until we would find a clearing somewhere. This was one of the other things I liked about the hunt. We would sit there with the lights out and just listen to the dogs as they raced after their prey as fast as they could through the night. I would sit back and just stare at the stars and marvel at the creation of God. I would picture in my mind how big the universe was and think just how small I was. How could me, a small little clump of water and minerals of the earth amount to anything to a God that could make such a creation as the universe? I would silently talk with God in my heart and thank him for being so gracious that he saw fit to let me live even if I was not worthy of his majestic glory. Sometimes I would get lucky and see a shooting star go across the sky.
Then the dogs would change their note from the long drawling howl to one of short choppy barks. My dad would turn on his light and we would start hiking to the place they had ran the coon up a tree somewhere deep in the forest. Sometimes it would be difficult going through briars and swamps. Almost always we ended up in some water. This made my feet so cold. When we got to where the dogs were we would find them jumping as high as they could up the side of a huge old tree. My dad had a special light with a really strong beam that he would use then. He would shine the light up into the tree and start making a growling coughing sound like someone clearing out his throat. This would cause the coon to look into the light and its eyes would glow in the dark of the tree branches. My dad would have me hold the light at the coon and he would position himself in way that he could hold the rifle in its beam and aim at the coon. My dad was a good shot and it usually only took one or two tries for him to bring the coon tumbling from its perch high in the darkness of the tree. I always felt sorry for the coon as it fell from the tree to a loud thump on the ground. Quiet often it would not be dead but just wounded. It would fight four or five dogs for its survival, but always in the end it would lose. My dad would wrestle the coon away from the dogs and put it in a big plastic feed sack. I would have to tote the coon over my shoulder which weighed anywhere from 5 to 10 pounds. Its blood soiling my clothes and sometimes I could here it still rasping to breathe in its last throws of life. My dad would call the dogs away from the tree and get them started looking for another scent trail. It would not take long and the dogs were off again on the trail of another coon. Again the dogs barking would be like a train on a track that raced through the forest. If I was lucky my dad would have a difficult time locating the coon or the coon would be in a hole. This gave me time to start a little small campfire and to open up the biscuits. Coffee and biscuits never tasted any better than they would when you had walked so many miles and your shoes are steaming by the campfire from some swamp you crossed. This would continue through the night leading from one tree to another. The hunt would sometimes last from 10 o'clock at night until we saw the sunrise in the morning especially if we got lost. We would always get three to five coons in one night.
Baby Sitters
In order to help with expenses my mom worked in a sewing factory
for some time. My mom started taking us to a childcare center near
to where she was working. I remember them mostly for making us take
a nap around midday. I also remember they tried to get me to eat
some kind of sour vegetable very often that I hated. It was on the
way to the childcare center one cold morning that I thought we were
doomed. There was a long bridge that crossed a rocky river below
just before you entered the town of ware shoals. My mom started
across and the car slid out of control on some ice. My mom said
some words that I do not recall then she managed to get control
again. The childcare center must have been expensive because my
mom started looking for baby sitters. During this time my brother
and I went through several baby sitters. I don't remember a lot
about them except one that could not cook. If I close my eyes I
can still smell the scent of burned corn. Then there was the one that
wanted to keep us from watching TV. I don't know what possessed
me because normally I would never hurt anyone. But when I was a
child nothing would get between my Star Trek TV show time and me.
Well this lady had the idea that children should always be outside
playing. It was 4 O'clock and time for Star Trek. She told us we
had to stay outside. Something must have snapped inside of me because
I started grabbing the biggest rocks from my mom's flowerbed and
began throwing with a vengeance. I had the poor woman dancing and
yelling that she was going to tell my mom. I did get into the house
and watch Star Trek but I realized I was probably going to get a
severe spanking for this. Well my mom came home and I kind of stayed
in the background. The lady proceeded to tell my mom what happened.
Evidently it did not ever sink in to my mom's head what really happened.
Are maybe it was that she really wanted to do this herself. It turns
out the lady had been stealing diapers from my mom so my mother
fired her that day. Boy was I lucky and I still watch Star Trek
sometimes. Don't get in my way. It was shortly after that several
of the neighbors said they seen me also. They could not believe
such a little boy was throwing such huge rocks. It created very
interesting gossip for our normally uneventful neighborhood.
The Garden Snake
I was about four when I remember helping my dad in the garden. We
had walked what seemed like miles through the woods. It would then
open into a two acre clearing. Every year my dad would plant tomatoes,
corn, beans, and usually a few other things. We used a rotary tiller
with the blades mounted in front to break the ground. This was like
any other day with me following at my dad's heels. My dad started
the noisy old tiller and began plowing. I was watching to see how
many earthworms I could catch for our coming fishing trip. I got
bored for this when I could not find any so I chased my dad through
the field. He finally stopped and asked if I wanted to plow. He
held on for a moment are so then he let me have the control. I felt
like a rag doll. The thing must have shaken every tooth in my head
that I had left. My dad took over when he seen that I had enough.
It was as we were changing off that I saw this black stick moving
across the ground. It was a tiny black snake. My dad stopped the
tiller and started walking away at a pace that for me was running.
I was scared. Luckily neither of us was bitten but I never forgot
that otherwise peaceful day in the garden. I now know that a garden
snake is a well-known alternate name for a garter snake, which is
the proper common name. It is not poisonous or deadly to humans.
A full-grown garden snake rarely gets over 3 feet, and more often
is seen around 2 feet. They are black with a long stripe running
lengthwise down their back.
The Billie Goat
My dad was always keeping some sort of animals around the house.
He had this mean old goat and told me many times not to go near
the fence. But the little boy adventurer had to come out one day.
I had an older friend that lived just across the way and he came
over to visit. I just had to show him the new goat. I do not remember
how exactly but like some nightmare we were inside the fence with
this old goat and as fate would have it we were chased from the
fence. The only problem was we left the gate open and the chasing
did not stop there. We did manage to escape with out any serious
injury. In the end I was left to explain to my dad why the goat
was out of the fence.
The Tire
I could not have been much older than five
at the time. I know I had not started to school yet. It was one
of those hot summer afternoons. It was not long after returning
from the hospital with our new baby brother. My younger brother
and I were headed across the back yard to our favorite spot. It
was the swing my dad had put up from an old tire. My younger
brother climbed into the swing and I began to push him. I told him
I would be so glad when our new addition to the family got a little
older. It would be so nice to have someone else to do the pushing.
It never occurred to me that if we were still interested in the
old tire that someday we might have to share it with him. As I look
back upon this I think that it would be nice if we could think the
other way. I guess, as we get older we start to think about things
like this. I recently have begun to understand what it means by
it is better to give than receive. I know that is an old cliche but it fits this little tidbit from my past. I feel that the very
nature of our thought balances us between good and evil. Some people
say that it is just blessings are that the angels look out for those
that help others. We must help each other and sometimes thinking
more of others with our hearts than our selves. It is only done
through our true innermost selves. In the realm of Gods creation
there exist the ultimate good and the ultimate bad. Most everyone
will exist in the center of this region. As you get closer to the
bad end of the realm you find that it is an awful world of hate
and violence. If you wish to move toward the good end you must learn
to truly be good. Only the extreme good parts of our souls ever
reach a perfect world promised by God. Only those of with true good
ever reach the perfect world. This is not people whom are just good
for show but those whom can not think any other way but to do good
to others.
The Day I Lost Four Front Teeth
It was a hot summer's day and life
was just wonderful. I had played in the yard, building huge construction
sites with my toy trucks most of the day. I had gotten kind of tired,
I sometimes found it fun to climb up as high as I could get and
just enjoy the breeze. This is where my mom could never find me.
We had this huge oak tree in the front yard that overlooks the small
country road we lived on. It was my favorite spot to just sit and
relax after a hard day in the gravel pits. I was about five years
old at this time. I had already lost a few of my baby teeth and
felt that I was moving into adulthood. I moved my car, which was
an Oldsmobile pedal type made of cast iron to the point I could
easily reach the lowest limb of my goal. I grabbed the limb and
swung like Tarzan to the first level of my sky perch. Once here
it was an cinch. I could easily reach the next limb to reach the
point I could sit comfortably. I was reaching for the next level
when my foot slipped. It was like a blur from there as I fell between
the two branches that only a moment ago had been excellent footing.
Somehow when I fell my teeth managed to be the only thing I was
able grab hold with. I had conveniently knocked out my four front
teeth that till this day are probably still buried in solid oak.
I hardly cried when I had physical pain. I went to my mom and all
I could think about was whether the tooth fairy would bring me four
dimes in one night. It is one of those childhood memories I still
live with. It turns out that those childhood teeth were more important
than I thought at the time. As my permanent teeth came in they did
not have anything to control their growth. My top four teeth are
now some what crooked to this day.
Bubble Earth
As my life continued I began some time are
another to start feeling like I was just in a bubble and my city
was all that there was. I guess that comes from being raised in
a small town. I still remember the first time that my mother drove
us through Greenville, SC. I was totally amazed at the ten to fifteen
story tall buildings. They were so big. At this time I have been
around the world several times and I still feel that I am just in
a bubble like a lab rat. The only difference now is that I have
felt the walls and know that it is true. The Earth is really not
so big.
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